Aftercare
Care and recovery after a session, both physically and emotionally.
Animal play
Role-playing in which a person imitates the behavior of an animal, often within a dominant/submissive dynamic.
Bondage
To bind or restrict someone's freedom of movement, often with ropes, handcuffs or other devices, as part of a power dynamic.
Bratty submissive
A submissive person who is deliberately being a little defiant or challenging to provoke reactions from the dominant partner.
Breath play
Play that involves controlled restriction of breathing, which is risky and requires great knowledge, clear consent and safety awareness.
CBT - (Cock and Ball Torture)
A practice in BDSM that involves pain or discomfort directed at the penis and testicles.
CEI - (Cum Eating Instruction)
A fetish in which a person is instructed to consume their own or someone else's ejaculation.
Chastity
Practice where a person abstains from sexual stimulation or orgasm, or has it controlled using a chastity device, such as a chastity cage.
CNC - (Consensual Non-Consensual)
Rollspel där deltagarna samtycker i förväg till scenarion som simulerar brist på samtycke, med tydliga gränser och säkerhetsrutiner.
Collaring
Symbolic act where a necklace shows that a submissive “belongs” to a dominant.
Cuckold
A dynamic where a person gets sexual arousal from their partner/Mistress being intimate with someone else, sometimes combined with elements of humiliation.
Dom/Sub (Dominant/
Submissive)
Basic dynamic where one person has a controlling role (Dom) and the other a submissive one (Sub).
Drop (Subdrop/
Domdrop)
An emotional or physical decline after an intense experience.
Edge play
Play close to physical or mental limits, with a higher level of risk and experience requirements.
Edging
Sexual technique where one approaches orgasm but stops before climax, often repeatedly, to enhance the experience.
E-stim (Electrostimulation)
Use of electrical stimulation via special equipment to create sensory experiences in the body.
Food play
Use of food in sexual or sensual contexts, such as as part of play or physical contact.
Free use
An agreed-upon dynamic where one person gives the other great freedom to initiate intimacy (within clear boundaries).
Humiliation
A dynamic in which a person is subjected to verbal or psychological actions aimed at creating feelings of inferiority, within a consensual framework.
Hard limits
Absolute limits that must never be exceeded.
Impact play
Play that involves hitting or physical impact, such as spanking or whipping.
Interrogation play
Role-playing games that simulate interrogation situations where one person asks questions and the other answers, often with elements of control and psychological pressure.
JOI - (Jerk Off Instruction)
The dominant gives instructions to someone else on how to stimulate themselves.
Medical play
Role play inspired by medical situations, where one party takes a “doctor role” and the other a “patient role”.
Predicament bondage
A form of bondage where the person is placed in a position where every movement leads to some kind of consequence, such as discomfort or increased effort, which creates a constant balance situation.
Protocol
Rules or patterns of behavior that a submissive is expected to follow.
Public play
Activities or role-play that take place in public or semi-public environments, often with a focus on excitement and risk-taking and the voyeuristic feeling of being discovered.
Scat
A fetish involving feces in sexual or fetish-related contexts.
Service submission
A form of submission where the focus is on performing services or tasks for the dominant.
Sissy play
Role-playing game in which a person (often a man) assumes a feminized and often stereotypically submissive role.
Soft limits /
Mjuka gränser
Boundaries that can be explored cautiously, but with hesitation or under certain conditions.
SPH - (Small Penis Humiliation)
A form of humiliation play that focuses on belittling or mocking someone's penis size.
SSC - (Safe, Sane, Consensual)
A principle that emphasizes that everything should be safe, healthy and based on consent.
Subspace
Mental and physical state when in the submissive role
Switch
A person who can switch between dominant and submissive roles depending on the situation or partner.
Safeword
A predetermined word or signal used to immediately pause or interrupt a BDSM activity if someone feels uncomfortable or wants to stop. We use RED = Stop/interrupt, and YELLOW = Slow down/change direction.
Trampling
A practice in which one person walks or stands on another person's body, with elements of dominance.
Wet
Fetish connected to urine, for example being peed on or forced to drink urine.